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Parshat Vayigash

ALL THE SOULS COMING TO EGYPT

WITH JACOB, THOSE DESCENDED FROM HIM, EXCLUDING THE WIVES OF JACOB'S SONS, ALL

THE SOULS WERE SIXTY SIX. AND JOSEPH'S SONS, WHO WERE BORN TO HIM IN EGYPT,

TWO SOULS; ALL THE SOULS OF THE HOUSE OF JACOB WHO CAME TO EGYPT WERE

SEVENTY.

(Bereishit 46:26-7)

 

Abba Halifa Keruya

asked R. Hiyyz bar Abba: The sum you find [written]

is seventy, but [when counting] individuals you find seventy less one!.. He said: I had a precious pearl in my hand and you want

me to lose it, so said R. Hama bar Hanina: It was Yocheved; she was

still in the womb during the journey and was born between the walls [of Egypt],

as it says: who gave birth to her for Levi in Egypt (Bamidbar

20) – her birth was in Egypt, but her mother did not go through the

pregnancy in Egypt.

(Bava Batra

123a-b)

 

there is one who says that the number

seventy is an approximation, and that there were sixty-nine. That exegete is

mistaken, since we find that he had thirty-three sons and daughters, but they

were [only] thirty-two. The midrash

that Yocheved was born between the walls is also

strange. Why didn't Scripture mention the wonder performed for her sake – that

[if we assume that Yocheved was born as Jacob's

family entered Egypt]

she gave birth to Moses at the age of one hundred and thirty!? [After all,] it

is mentioned that Sarah gave birth when she was ["only"] ninety years

old! As if this were not troubling enough, the authors of the piyutim [hymns] wrote in a song for Simhat Torah, "My mother Yocheved,

be consoled for my death, and she was two hundred and fifty years old [when I –

Moses – died], and Ahiya lived so and so many years."

This is [merely] an aggadah or a lone opinion. I

think that Jacob is included in the calculation [of the seventy souls], as if

to say all of his sons and daughters plus himself were thirty-three. The proof

for this is that it first says Jacob and his children. If someone argues

against me that it says, Now all those descended from Jacob were seventy

souls (Shemot 1:5),

it is enough [to answer him] that Scripture did not hesitate to leave out one

from seventy when it said, These are Jacob's sons who were born to him in Padan Aram (Bereishit

35:26) even though Benjamin was not born there. There are two additional

[textual] witnesses to this matter. One is that it says, And these are the

names of the children of Israel who were coming to Egypt: Jacob and his sons

Jacob's firstborn was Reuben (Bereishit 46:8);

here Jacob is mentioned as belonging to the children of Israel, since

Scripture used language appropriate to the majority [of the people involved]. The

second witness is all the souls of the house of Jacob who came to Egypt

were seventy (Bereishit 46:27);

but Manasseh and Ephraim did not come to Egypt – they

were already there and had been born there; later it is written With seventy souls, Your forefathers descended to Egypt (Devarim

10:22), but those two had not descended. This verse also serves as

evidence that Jacob was included in the calculation, because he had a soul,

and that is main thing.

(Ibn Ezra Bereishit

46:23)

 

 

And the Crooked shall be Straight

Aviad Stollman

In this week's parasha

we reach the climax of the dizzying drama which took hold of Jacob's family

when Judah's

heartrending words brought Joseph to reveal himself to his brothers. Later we

read of Jacob's arrival in Egypt

and his exciting meeting with his beloved son, Joseph. Next week we shall read

of Jacob's last days, when he summarizes his biography with the words: The

days of the years of my life have been few and miserable (Bereishit

47:9). Jacob's life was a hard one indeed, full of setbacks and

tragedies, starting from his brother who wished to kill him, through his uncle

who cheated him, his sons who turned the lands' inhabitants against him, and

the long years of Joseph's disappearance, who, as our parasha

tells us, Jacob would finally see again only at the end of his life.

The climax described in our parasha

offers a good opportunity to consider the reasons why Jacob's life was so

difficult. It seems that the root of all his troubles stems from his pursuit of

the birthright and its attendant blessing. It was that pursuit that caused Esau

to seek Jacob's death and which forced Jacob to flee to the arms of the

deceitful Laban. It was Laban's

deceit that led to Jacob's marriage to a pair of rival sisters whose

quarrelling children brought the greatest tragedy of his life upon him; the

loss of his beloved son.

This destructive tendency was evident from the

moment Jacob emerged from his mother's womb: and his hand grasped Esau's

heel (25:26), a

tendency that would eventually be revealed to be spiced with deception – Is

it for this reason that he was named Jacob? For he has deceived me twice; he

took my birthright, and behold, now he has taken my blessing (27:36). A

plain reading would seem to have it that Jacob played a passive role in his

father's deception. After all, his mother Rebekkah

came from a family of expert cheaters and her impudence does not surprise us. However,

a

careful reading of Scripture makes it clear that Jacob was not merely his

mother's passive accomplice, as we may have been taught to believe; take notice

that Jacob tells his mother: Behold, my brother Esau is a hairy man, whereas

I am a smooth man. Perhaps my father will touch me, and I will appear to him as

a deceiver, and I will bring upon myself a curse and not a blessing (27:11). Jacob

does not reprove his mother for daring to deceive his father and her husband. Rather,

he asks her to improve the tactics of deception which they deployed together

against Jacob.

At least during the first stage of his

biography, dishonesty is very salient in Jacob's life and in the lives of those

surrounding him and the Sages did not spare him from their criticism. Bereishit Rabbah (70; pg. 819 in the

Theodore –Albeck edition)

describes the events of Jacob and Leah's wedding night:

All that night he would call out to her, "Rachel!"

and she would answer him. In the morning and behold, she was Leah, and

he said: "How you have cheated me, cheater's daughter!" She said to

him: "Is there a teacher without students? Didn't your

father cry out, ‘Esau!' – and you answered him?

So too, you called out and I answered you."

That is to say: All through that dark wedding

night Jacob called out "Rachel" and the woman who was with him

answered him. In the morning he discovered that she was Leah, and called her "Cheater,

daughter of a cheater! I know your father Laban, and

it appears that the apple does not fall far from the tree." Leah answered

him wittily, "Is there a teacher without students? I am your pupil! You

are the cheater: did you not cheat your father – when he called out "Esau"

you answered him as if you were Esau!? I did not learn from my cheating father,

but rather from you!

The idea behind this drasha

is that Jacob suffered poetic justice (mida

keneged mida); he had

cheated his father – and Leah and Laban cheated him

in return. It can be stated from a literary perspective that the sale of Joseph

alludes even more strongly to poetic justice. Jacob's sons take Joseph's coat

and dip it in the blood of a goat slaughtered for that purpose; when Isaac is

cheated, we read that hides of the goat kids were placed on Jacob's

hands and on the smoothness of his neck.

According to Laban,

Jacob cheated him and stole his children (and grandchildren): And Laban said to Jacob, "What have you done, that you

concealed from me, and led away my daughters like prisoners of war? Why have

you fled secretly, and concealed from me, and not told me? I would have sent

you away with joy and with songs, and with drum and with harp" (31:27). Perhaps,

if we follow the Sages' lead and search for irony and poetic justice, we might

say that Jacob was punished for this act when Joseph hid from him his two

grandsons who had been born in Egypt – Manasseh

and Ephraim.

We can continue this line of interpretation and

add yet another instance of deceit. This time it is not Jacob who deceives, but

rather the person closest to him, his wife Rachel, who cheats her father: But

Rachel had taken the teraphim and placed them into

the camel saddle and sat upon them; so Laban felt

about the entire tent but did not find [them]. And she said to her father,

"Let my lord not be annoyed, for I cannot rise

before you, for the way of women is upon me." So he searched, but did not

find the teraphim (31:34-5). As

Scripture makes clear, punishment for this act of deception was not long in

coming. After all, Jacob had promised Laban: The

one with whom you find your gods shall not live. In the presence of our

brothers, recognize for yourself what is with me, and take [it] for

yourself." For Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them (35:19). Indeed,

Rachel died on the way by Efrata (35:19).

We find the first signs of Jacob's repentance in

parashat VaYishlah, when he

returns to Esau the blessing that he had cheated him out of: Now take my

blessing, which has been brought to you (33:11). It seems that this is the

reason why we are told that Jacob's name was changed to Israel in

that parasha. The change of name alludes to a

substantial and psychological change – from akivut

["crookdness," containing three letters of "Jacob"]

to yeshirut ["straightness,"

containing the first three letters of "Israel"] – ve'haya

ha'akov le'mishorthe

crooked shall be straight (Isaiah 40:4). However, despite the fact that

Jacob succeeded in changing, it could be that the members of the second

generation were sullied by their family's cheating ways. That was true of the

episode of Dinah and Shechem, and so it was with the

story of Judah and Tamar, which was also based upon deceit – Judah

cheated her and she cheated him. Perhaps we can add to the list Joseph's

behavior that involved deceit and deception towards his brothers.

In the final days of Jacob's life, described in parashat VaYehi, he blessed his

two grandsons, Ephraim and Manasseh. When Jacob placed his right hand on

Ephraim, his son Joseph told him: "Not so, Father, for this one is the

firstborn; put your right hand on his head." But his father

refused, and he said, "I know, my son, I know; he too will become a

people, and he too will be great. But his younger brother will be greater than

he, and his children['s fame] will fill the

nations." At this point Jacob already realized that the status of

firstborn is meaningless, while his son Joseph – who had been separated from

his father before the latter internalized this lesson – did not understand his

father's gesture.

Jacob internalized and passed on the biblical

message that the status of the firstborn is meaningless: Abel rather than Cain,

Isaac rather than Ishmael, Jacob rather than Esau, Judah rather than Reuben,

David rather than Eliav, Solomon rather than Adoniahu – all of these were chosen despite their not being

firstborns. Being the firstborn is an external matter; when Samuel asked God to

make his firstborn son Eliav king, God answered him: Look

not upon his appearance, or the height of his stature, for I have rejected him,

for it is not as man sees, (what is visible) to the eyes, while the Lord sees

into the heart (I Samuel 16:7).

Our people are called by Israel's

name rather than by Jacob's name. We must be honest with ourselves and with

others. As the RaMBaM wrote in Hilkhot

Deot 2:6 (Raymond L. Weiss, translator): "A

man is forbidden to make a habit of using smooth and deceptive language. There

shall not be one thing in his mouth and another in his heart, but what is

within shall be like what is without. The matter in his heart shall be the same

as what is in his mouth. It is forbidden to delude one's fellow creatures, even

a Gentile… even one word of deception and fraud is forbidden. Rather, he

shall have lips of truth, a steadfast spirit, and a heart pure of all mischief

and intrigue."

Rabbi

Dr. Aviad Stollman teaches

in the Pardes Institute in Jerusalem and serves as rabbi

to the Zemer HaZayit

congregation in Efrat.

 

 

Then Judah

approached him: You are Approachable for the Negotiation of

Emotion-laden Positions

Va'yigash elav Yehuda [Then Judah

approached him] – R. Yehudah says:

Approached for battle, as it is written, Then Yoav

and the people who were with him approached to make battle. R. Nehemiah

says: Approached to reconcile him, as it is written, then the children of Judah

approached Joshua to reconcile him. The rabbis say:

Approached to pray, as it is written, Elijah approached.

R. Eliezer combined the interpretations:

If for war – I will come; if for reconciliation – I will come; if for prayer – I

will come.

R. Meir says: Va'yigash

refers only to peace, for it is said, and they approached… and he

inquired of their peace.

R. Yehudah says: Va'yigash

refers only to sacrifice, for it is written Va'yigash

[and he brought near] the bull of the sin-offering.

R. Yossi says: Va'yigash

refers only to rebuke, for it is said, and they said, draw close [gash

hala].

R. Natan says: Va'yigash

refers only to touching, for it is said, Please draw near, and I will

touch my son.

(Yalkut Shimoni

Bereishit 44:150)

 

His

heart failed… their father Jacob's spirit came to life: The Connection Between Body And

Soul

His heart

failed – His heart stopped beating and his

breathing ceased, for cardiac activity stopped and he was as dead. This is a

known phenomenon resulting from sudden joy. Medical texts state that the aged

and weak may not be able to withstand this; many faint at the sudden reception

of good tidings; the heart suddenly expands and opens, and the warmed blood

goes out and spreads throughout the external portions of the body, and as a

result of its cooling, the heart ceases. The old man fell as if dead, and he

said that he believed them not, informing us that he stood a good part of the

day, and he lies in silence because he did not believe them, for he knew that

this fainting would lead to their shouting at him, accustoming him to this joy

until it is absorbed in calm. This is the reason that they spoke to him all

of Joseph's words which he had spoken to them, and when he saw the wagons etc.

they were shouting Joseph's words into his ears, and bringing the wagons

before him, and then his spirit returned to him, and his breathing was

restored, and he lived, and this is the meaning of their father Jacob's

spirit came to life.

(RaMBaN, Bereishit

45:26)

 

Now it

will be, when Pharaoh has you called and says: "What is it that you

do?"

In a land

such as Egypt, where a person is judged only on the basis of his labor,

where a person is born not as a person but as an artisan, a farmer, soldier,

etc. – the question regarding occupation would naturally be the first question.

But they will fearlessly declare the unpleasant truth; the Egyptians'

abhorrence of their occupation and the nations' general loathing of the Jews,

are the primary means of survival for this tribe which is destined to pass the

days in isolation. As long as the light of morality has not dawned upon the

nations, the barriers that the nations raised against Israel protect him from contamination by the corruption of the

peoples among whom he will walk for centuries.

(Hirsch, ibid., 46:33)

 

The Fast

of the Tenth of Tevet: Remembrance of the Event or the Report?

The fast of

the tenth is the tenth of Tevet (the tenth month), when the King of Babylon set

himself against Jerusalem, as it says; Again in the ninth year, in the tenth

month, in the tenth day of the month, the word of the Lord came unto me saying,

Son of man, write thee the name of the day, even of this same day: the King of

Babylon set himself against Jerusalem this same day (Ezekiel 24). And I say the fast of the tenth is the fifth of Tevet, but in Judea

they fast on account of the event, and in the Diaspora they fast on account of

the report, as it says: And it came to pass in the twelfth year of our

captivity, in the tenth month, in the fifth day of the month, that one that had

escaped out of Jerusalem came unto me saying, The city is smitten (ibid. 33),

and they heard, and made the day of the report as the day of the burning, and I

prefer what I say to what he says.

(Sifri Va'et'hanan,

31)

 

 And

Jacob said to Pharaoh, "The days of the years of my sojournings

are one hundred thirty years. The days of the years of my life have been few

and miserable, and they have not reached the days of the years of the lives of

my forefathers in the days of their sojournings."

(Bereishit 47:9)

 

The days of the years of my sojournings – the

years of my sojourning, for I was always a stranger in the land, and all of the

early saints referred to life in this world as that of a stranger, for indeed

it is not the important thing, it is like a passing shadow compared to life in

the world to come. Thus, David said: I am a sojourner with You (Psalms 39:13). When

the people pledged themselves to the service of the House of God, David said,

For we are like sojourners before you and like residents as were all of our

forefathers, in that our life on earth is like a shadow (I Chronicles 29:15). This

is also proof that these holy people knew about the survival of the soul, for

he who sojourns in another country will eventually return home.

(Reggio ad. loc.)

 

The days of the years of my life have been few and miserable

I know no reason for this comment by our aged patriarch. Is it ethical for a

person to complain to a king? And what sense is there in saying and they

have not reached the days of the years of the lives of my forefathers? He

may yet possibly attain them and live even longer than they did!

It appears to me that our father Jacob had turned gray, and he

appeared very old. Pharaoh wondered about his age, for most people of his time

did not live very long as the lifespan of mankind had already been shortened. He

therefore asked him, "How many are the days of the years of your life,

as I have not seen a man as ages as you in my entire kingdom?" Then Jacob

answered that he was one hundred and thirty years of age, and that he should

not wonder at the years he had lived for they are few when compared with the

life spans of his fathers who had lived longer. However, on account of their

having been hard years of toil and groaning, he had turned gray and he appeared

extremely old.

(RaMBaN ad loc, Chavel

translation)

 

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