Toledot 5765 – Gilayon #368
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Parshat Toldot
SO JACOB DREW CLOSE TO
HIS FATHER ISAAC, WHO FELT HIM AND WONDERED. "THE VOICE IS THE VOICE OF
JACOB, YET THE HANDS ARE THE HANDS OF ESAU.
(Bereishit 27:22)
The voice is the voice of Jacob – No prayer is ever
effective without the participation of Jacob's offspring.
Yet
the hands are the hands of Esau – No war is ever won without the
participation of Esau's offspring in it.
Caution is Required when we try to Understand the Present on the Basis
of the Past
These blessings invite
several difficult questions. If the blessing was a prophecy, how could he not
know who he was blessing?… it seems correct to me
that the prophet's blessing is a kind of prayer, and God hears his prayer,
since this blessing principally concerns their offspring. There are those who
have not awakened from their foolish slumber who think that we are still in the
exile of
this is not so –
was under
control, and so it is written, Thus
fell away from
control (II Kings
off every male in
(I Kings
Since it [
control, they rejoiced on the day of our catastrophe [the destruction of the
first
Babylonians, Strip her, strip her, to her very foundations (Tehillim 137:7). It was especially humiliating
for
humiliate them in their evil… In the days of Agripas, when
was under siege and the Edomite forces came to
aid. The people which exiled us was derived from the Kittim, and so the translator
rendered Ships came from the quarter of Kittim (Bamidbar 24:24) [as referring to
that is the
as I explained in my commentary on the Book of Daniel. There were but a few
people who believed in the new faith [Christianity]. When many came to believe
in it in the days of
who had renewed the religion entirely, and there had been [until that time] no
one in the world who observed the religion [Christianity], besides the Edomites
[and so, Roman Christendom is referred to as "and
and
to as Ishmaelites, but there but a few real descendents of the Ishmaelites
among them.
(Ibn Ezra on Bereishit 27:40)
Jacob and
Esau – Our Father Abraham's Two Grandsons
Aviad A. Stollman
For
generations, Jews have read the story of Jacob and Esau as offering the
background to the difficult relations between
and
and Christianity. This viewpoint is reflected in some of the sages midrashim and the exegesis written in their wake. Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai's pronouncement, "Esau
hates
Horowitz edition), which is quoted in Rashi's
commentary to the Torah (on Bereishit 33:4),
served many as a foundational ethos. Sometimes they even mobilized it to
support certain halakhic decisions regarding relationships between Jews and
gentiles.
My
grandfather, Rabbi Yitzhak Stolman z"l (Belarus-U.S.A.-Israel; 1894-1979), attempted to
dislodge the story from the context mentioned above. In his eyes, Jacob and
Esau did not represent two peoples, but rather two brothers – the grandsons of
Abraham the Hebrew. In this way, he attempted to project the story upon
contemporary existential issues which are internal
to Judaism. I would like to present ideas written up by my grandfather in
adding a contemporary dimension to them.
Esau, who is called a skilled hunter, a man of the outdoors (Bereishit 25:27), is described by my
grandfather as if he had no "interest in his life besides the acquisition
of possessions and property. He was a man who devoted himself to life's passions.
He was a man with prey in his mouth, one who fights for his bodily
desires. He finds no rest in his life" (Minhat Yitzhak, 1:131). Jacob, who is
called a mild man who stayed in camp (ibid),
is Esau's mirror image: "A man of plain and eternal views; a man who
planted his entire being between the walls of the beit midrash
of Shem and Eber; a man who viewed life from within the "four cubits of
the halakha" (Minhat
Yitzhak, loc cit.). Jacob finds tranquility in careful
introspection, while Esau, known as
("red") finds satisfaction in bodily ruddiness, in excitement and stimulation
of the senses. Jacob possesses a sense of history which brings him patience and
spiritual tranquility. For example, he understands the significance of the
birthright correctly, in the context of the unique family into which he was
born. In contrast, Esau the materialist who throws himself into hunting and the
acquisition of property sees no importance in history – future or past.
The midrash proposes that the day the
birthright was sold was the day of mourning for Abraham's death. Abraham's
passing left a deep impression on the two brothers. They coped with the
terrible tragedy – the dominant and beloved grandfather's death – in different
ways. Jacob contemplated his grandfather's life, which was full of goodness and
justice, and the significance of the chain of generations in the world – one
passing away while the other arrives. Abraham had, in fact, died, but God had
testified: I have singled him out , that he may instruct his children and
his posterity to keep the way of he Lord by doing what is just and right, in
order that the Lord may bring about for Abraham what He has promised him (Bereishit 18:19). Jacob, who recognized the
gravity of the mission assigned to him and to his descendants after him, was
left meditating in his tent. Abraham's death taught Esau about the attribute of
justice which holds sway over all, even over Abraham. All will meet life's end,
and Esau concluded from this that he had nothing better to do than run and
quickly snatch enjoyment of this world's pleasures. Esau went out to the field
that very day to grab and enjoy; the midrash relates
that "that wicked man transgressed five prohibitions that day,"
including murder and adultery. Little time past before he returned exhausted
from the field: "From whence did all this tiredness come upon him? Who is
it who disturbs his spirit and blocks his repose? What was Esau lacking in
Isaac's house?…He senses an internal tumult, a
terrible emotional storm, a failure to achieve self-control" (p. 132). Esau does not know why he is tired,
but Jacob knows that "when the soul lacks spiritual sustenance, all of the
bodily satisfactions together will not quiet the longings of man's heart" (p. 133).
For
many years, Esau boasted against Jacob that he was the "winner," that
he knew how to enjoy "the good life," while Jacob was a repressed
wretch. "Then, unintentionally, Esau let words escape his mouth that were
born of the depths of his soul's confusion: for I am exhausted… did
you know, my brother Jacob, that I am exhausted? (p. 134) Jacob's response to Esau's words also rise from his soul's
depths: and Jacob said, "First sell me your birthright"; that
is to say: Admit that I am the first-born [bekhor]! That my way of life
is to be preferred [levakher]! And Esau replies: "I
am at the point of death, so of what use is my birthright to me?" Esau
lives for the moment; he does not appreciate long-term spiritual
considerations. In exchange for the birthright, Jacob feeds Esau the stew of
round lentils that had been prepared as a mourner's meal. Ironically, the
vegetarian meal prepared by the pale tent-dwelling brother restores the ruddy
and tanned brother – the brother who loved red meat – to life. It was spiritual
nourishment that finally brought relief to Esau's physical and spiritual
weariness. Modern society's restless life-style can sink us in terrible
exhaustion. This weariness results from our failure to recognize the importance
of the birthright, that is to say, from our failure to understand our unique
spiritual mission. It can make us like Esau, returning exhausted from the
field. Do we take care to devote time to Torah and wisdom? Are we too lazy to
sit with the children and teach them a chapter of Scripture, of midrash, or of science? How often, after a grueling day of
work, do we sit down in front of our jittery televisions and grow tired of
them? Do we possess historical awareness? Do we internalize the values passed
down to us by our parents, or do we allow ourselves to be dragged along after
life's tired pageant?
How
is our feeling of finitude expressed? Are we like Esau, who concluded that the
birthright was valueless, or are we like Jacob, who came to the opposite
conclusion – that the birthright is of great importance. My grandfather
concluded his derasha with these words: "When mortal man becomes aware of
his end, he sees transient life and he must aspire to the birthright, after a
life-goal, and leave his children their
spiritual inheritance. Has not our
time come, to perform our own reckoning?"
Rabbi Aviad A. Stollman is a doctoral
candidate in the Talmud Department of Bar Ilan University.
A Blessing is not Transmitted Through
Inheritance; a Person Must Deserve it.
God blessed Abraham in
that the Treasured [People] would be among his descendents, the nation He chose
for His possession, for whom God would be their God whose presence dwells among
them, and they would inherit the land and be sacred to God. But Abraham did not
transmit this blessing to Isaac, because no man is empowered to bequeath such a
blessing, for it is dependent upon the people's holiness and the virtue of
their deeds. God blessed Isaac with this blessing only after Abraham's death. Similarly,
Isaac did not want to bless his sons with Abraham's blessing, because he did
not know whether it would be effective – only one prepared for that blessing
will receive it from God.
(Malbim on Bereishit 27:1)
Rebecca is the "Mother of Jacob and Esau"
Why did the Torah see
fit to remind us once more – after Rebecca sent/smuggled Jacob away from Esau's
vicinity, keeping Esau from venting his rage – why did the Torah remind us that
she was mother to both Jacob and Esau?
The words of the super
commentary Tzeida La-Derekh on Rashi ring true: This comes to tell us
that she did not act only as Jacob's mother when she smuggled out Jacob, saving
him from death. Rather, she was also acting as Esau's mother, saving him from
murdering his brother. Although throughout the chapter she had been viewed as
acting solely for the sake of Jacob, her younger son (27:42), at the moment of greatest danger her actions
are explained by her role as mother of Jacob and Esau (28:5); she did not want to be bereft of them
both in the same day.
(Prof. Nehama Leibowitz, z"l,
Iyyunim be-Sefer
Bereishit, pg. 202)
The Many Faces of Esau
His name is Esau [Eisav]
for he is formed [asuy] and completed. Eisav, whose numerical
value is shalom, for if he had not been named "peace," he
would have destroyed the world. Another idea: Eisav
is [the letter] "ayin [= 70, followed
by the word,] shav." This shav [pointless one] completed the number of
70 nations that I created in my world.
(Baal ha-Turim, Bereishit 25:25).
Shalom: Its numerical value is [the same as] Eisav,
for one should be first to greet every person, even a gentile.
(Baal ha-Turim Bamidbar 6:26)
…the Baal ha-Turim's second explanation is much deeper, when he says "Shalom:
Its numerical value is [the same as] Eisav"…
and as has been stated, this is talking about the priestly blessing, meaning – the
blessing of peace to
is not complete as long as there is no peace for Esau as well. It may be said that in Toldot,
the numerical value of Eisav is shalom in order to restrain Esau,
while in the priestly blessing, the numerical value of Eisav is shalom
in order to inform the People Israel how important peace is, and that there
will be no peace for Israel as long as there is no peace between Jacob and
Esau.
(Prof. Y. Leibowitz, z"l,
Sheva Shanim Shel
Sihot al Parashat ha-Shavua, pg. 110).
The Sages do not Hesitate to Criticize the Patriarchs' Deeds in Order
to Derive a Moral Lesson
When evening came… (Bereishit 29:23) – He made love to her all night,
thinking she was Rachel. When he rose up in the morning, there was Leah (29:25). He said to her: "Cheater's
daughter, why did you cheat me?"
She told him: "And
did you not cheat your father when he asked you Is that you, Esau, my
first-born? And you answered, "I am Esau, your first-born"
(Bereishit 27:19),
and you ask why I cheated you?! Did your father not say, "Your brother
came deceitfully and took your blessing"(27:35)?
(Midrash Agadat Bereishit 49)
Jacob's Moral Conflict
He went and got them and brought them to his mother (Bereishit 27:14) – Coerced, bent-over, and
crying.
(Bereishit Rabbah 65)
One can make a derasha
– Vayeilekh, vayikah, vayavo [He went and
got and brought] "Vay!" for those three deeds.
(RaDaL's commentary on
Bereishit Rabbah)
The Third Temple will Only be Built Amidst Peace
Regarding the third
well, it says, they did not quarrel over it (Bereishit
26:22) – because the third Temple will be built by King Messiah, of whom
it is said, In token of abundant authority and of peace without limit (Isaiah 9:6), for there will be only peace and
truth in his days. That is why it [the well] was called Rehovot, for
then God will expand [yarhiv] their borders: When there is enmity or
competing sides, even if they are in a city as large as
they cannot dwell together. Even a very broad place is too constricting and
unbearable. In our iniquity, such has been our customary situation, to this
day. The opposite is true when there is peace upon
– then, even if we are fruitful in the land, and there be many inhabitants upon
it, it will still be a broad place for them, and not constricting… For in times of peace, we shall increase in the land (Bereishit loc.cit.),
for we shall not have to leave it.
(Keli Yakar on Bereishit 26:22)
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