Ki Tisa 5773 – Gilayon #789
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Parshat Ki Tissa
Six days shall
work be done
And the seventh
day a day of rest holy to the lord
Whosoever shall
work on the sabbath day
Shall
surely die.
(Shemot 31:15)
Six days shall work be done – And
one passage says 'Seven days shall you work', meaning that when you
do the will of the Omniscient, your work shall be done by others, your male
servants and your female servants, but when you do not do His will, you
yourself will do you work.
(Hizkuni, Ibid. ibid)
Rabban Gamliel, son of R. Yehudah Hanassi said, It is well to
combine Torah study with some worldly occupation, for the energy taken up by
both of them keeps sin out of our mind; all Torah study which is not combined
with some trade must at length fail and occasion sin. Let all who work for the
community do so from a spiritual motive, for then the merit of their fathers
will sustain them, and their righteousness will endure forever.
(Mishnah, Aboth 2,
2)
Our Rabbis taught: And thou shall
gather in thy corn. What is to be learnt from these words? Since it says, This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth, I
might think that this injunction is to be taken literally. Therefore it says,
'And thou shall gather in thy corn', which implies that you are to combine the
study of them with a worldly occupation. This is the view of R. Ishmael. R.
Simeon b. Yohai says: Is that possible? If a man
ploughs in the ploughing season, and sows in the
sowing season, and reaps in the reaping season, and threshes in the threshing
season, and winnows in the season of wind, what is to become of the Torah? No;
but when
perform the will of the Omnipresent, their work is performed by others, as it
says. And strangers shall stand and feed your flocks. etc., and when
perform the will of the Omnipresent their work is carried out by themselves, as
it says, And thou shall gather in thy corn. Nor is
this all, but the work of others also is done by them, as it says. And thou
shall serve thine enemy etc. Said Abaye: Many have followed the advice of R. Ishmael, and it
has worked well; others have followed R. Simeon b. Yohai
and it has not been successful.
(Talmud Bavli, Berachot 35b)
This issue of Shabbat Shalom is dedicated with great
longing for our friend Gerald Cromer , z"l,
A man of vision and action, a
founder of Netivot Shalom, initiator of the "Shabbat
Shalom" project.
On the occasion of the 5th memorial day of his passing which will occur
on Tuesday, 23 Adar 5773
Tablets and shards of tablets
Maayan Cromer-Agmon
Parashat Ki-Tissa begins with God
asking Moshe to gather from the children of
which was to serve a double purpose – to count the population and to build the Mishkan. "The wealthy person shall not give more nor
shall the pauper not give less than half a shekel to atone for their lives"
(Shemot 30:15). I
read this command as a hint of the extended narrative of the sin of the calf
which is presented in this parasha. The giving
of half a shekel, a coin of incomplete value, hints at the fracture to
occur in the coming chapters.
We meet the
Children of Israel on their long wilderness journey here. After forty-nine days
of trekking through the wide and wild wilderness, slowly, step after step, the
Children of Israel move further away from their past as servants under Pharaoh's
rule, and come closer to the future – a nation that knows its Torah, accepts
upon itself the yoke of God and dwells securely in the promised land. They
reach one of the high points of the journey – the epiphany at Sinai and the
receiving of the Tablets of Covenant.
A few chapters
preceding our current parasha, in Parashat
Yitro, we are told of the Children of Israel standing
at the foot of the mountain, waiting to receive the two Tablets of Covenant.
After long wanderings in the barren wilderness, after the desert winds blew
above them, peeling away some of the difficulties of life in
themselves in preparation for hearing the words of Living God. And
was covered in smoke and lightening and the rumbling voice of God is heard.
Following this
awesomely impressive event, God invites Moshe to ascend to Him and to receive
the engraved Tablets of the Covenant, and Moshe remains with Him for forty days
and forty nights. This was such a long time for the Children of Israel to be
without Moshe. The period that they spent at the foot of the mountain was only
a bit less than all their trekking in the desert until arriving at Sinai – forty-nine
days. It was really difficult for them – we can almost imagine them looking up
with hope to the top of the mountain peak, anxious to see Moshe's familiar
figure descending the dirt path, waiting to hear again his comforting voice
which directs them through the winding desert ways. "And the people saw
that Moshe lagged in coming down from the mountain […] this man Moshe who
brought us up from the land of Egypt, we do not know what has happened to him"
(Shemot 32:1).
They demand a
replacement, consolation, a different figure to enter the empty space opened in
their hearts. "Rise up, make us gods that will go before us […]" (Ibid.), they ask of Aharon,
and Aharon complies. He removes their gold ornaments
and melts them into a molten calf. A shining calf, radiant, a
luminescence of warm pleasant gold. Aharon
fashions for them a statue in their own image, a tender calf that wants to suck
and be warmed between its mother's breasts. "These are your gods, O
Israel." How pleasant to find shelter in the shadow of a god who resembles
ourselves, tender and young as ourselves, not threatening and not intimidating
with blasts and flashes and thunder. The people rise to life "And the
people came back from eating and drinking and they rose up to play" (32:6). After all this great anticipation,
after the barren wilderness and empty hearts watching in vain for Moshe, there
is great relief in gathering around the gold calf. Consolation
in eating and fulfillment of the basic need for nourishment.
"And
Moshe turned and came down the mountain, with the two Tablets of the Covenant
in his hand" (32:15). Moshe
approaches the encampment and he cannot believe his eyes. The people to whom he
devotes his heart, the people of which he was the heart, this people could not
wait for him and his direction; they made for themselves a calf of gold as a
replacement for God. In his great fury he smashes the tablets "and Moshe's
wrath flared, and he flung the tablets from his hand and smashed them at the
bottom of the mountain" (32:19).
What a powerful picture! The Tablets of the Covenant, sculpted and engraved by
the hand of God himself, shattered against the rocks of the mountain. Had they
waited only a bit longer, patiently restraining themselves, they would have
received the real thing – tablets written in God's handwriting. What great
greater gift could they possibly receive from God to signify the binding
covenant between them? The two tablets, inscribed on both sides, were intended
to be a wondrous unification of the two forces, the people and – through Moshe
– God.
There is, at
first glance, great tragedy in this event. A nation standing at the threshold
of an amazing experience, deviates from the path a moment before the event. In
my opinion, however, just as we are obliged to look at difficult and painful
events in our personal lives with an understanding eye, so must we consider
difficult events in our national history.
Actually, by
making the golden calf, Aharon facilitated liberation
from all the hard experiences and heavy baggage which the Children of Israel
carried with them throughout the wilderness sojourning and the servitude in
He unloads from them, unburdens them, relieves them, exposes
them bare of defense mechanisms. Ornaments can also represent beliefs and
conceptions which pass down from generation to generation. Just as a mother
passes on to her daughter a precious necklace which belonged to Grandma, so a
nation passes on to future generations the consciousness of slavery which
attended the people throughout its years in
melts all these ornaments into a single unit, thereby freeing the nation from
the yoke of the past, from the fears, from the dependency. Now they are more
open and ready to receive something new.
Facing this,
Moshe who broke the tablets; he too has created an additional opening for
rapprochement between the people and God. For what is a fracture if not an
entrance, a crack through which light may enter. As Leonard
Cohen sings: "There is a crack in everything, that's how the light comes
in".
For me the
broken tablets are a symbol of the possibility of coming closer, an opening to
great intimacy with the Lord. Instead of solid tablets, made from impenetrable
stone, we received broken tablets, and between the cracks we have room to
enter, there is room for true and full merger with God. Perhaps this is why, at
the beginning of the parasha, the people are
told to construct the tabernacle from the donations of half-shekels. The
half-shekels make it possible to build a sanctuary which will carry the shards
and their unification into a whole from the contributions of the masses. "There
is nothing so complete as a broken heart" as Rebbe Menachem Mendel of Koztk used to say.
After Moshe
breaks the tablets, he himself creates new tablets and God inscribes upon them
again the words which were written on the first tablets. What is the difference
between the two sets? The second set really connects God and
as a complete unit from God to nation, they are the
fruit of a joint project of Moshe and God, both in their work and in their
conversation. Moshe climbs the mountain with the tablets that he sculpted and
when they are in his hands he prays to God: "The Lord, the Lord! A
compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, and abounding in kindness and
good faith […]" (34:6), and God
answers his prayers and forgives the people its sin.
I dedicate
this dvar Torah to my father, Gerald
Cromer, of blessed memory, who, in the Kol Nidre service of Yom Kippur eve, would bring his sensitive,
fractured heart into the prayer, thereby bringing the congregation closer to
their hearts and to God, and who, on Purim, was always willing to crack his masculinity and dress as a woman. I miss him terribly and
hope that I, too, merit to walk in the ways of his
open heart.
Maayan
Cromer-Agmon, married to Ido,
mother to Naomi and Yaara, works in therapeutic
gardening.
Is it possible that the Children
of Israel could come only forty day after the epiphany at
the commandments "I am the Lord" and "You shall have no other
gods" still echoing in their eyes, and ask for other gods? It seems that
the Torah wanted to teach us and set for us an example for all generations, that this indeed can happen. The very
assumption that people who stood at the foot of
Sinai cannot, are not able to sink again into ignorance, into foolishness, into
the abomination of idolatry – is basically flawed […] revealed miracles – one-time
wonders – do not change man, his nature, his habits. They may astonish him
momentarily, but they do not separate him from his world, his conceptions, his
past, his routines.
(N. Leibowitz: Studies in the
Book of Shemot, p. 399)
Moreover the word of the LORD
came unto me, saying: 'Son of man, when the house of
they defiled it by their way and by their doings; their way before Me was as the uncleanness of a woman in her impurity. Wherefore
I poured out My fury upon them for the blood which they had shed upon the land,
and because they had defiled it with their idols; and I scattered them among
the nations, and they were dispersed through the countries; according to their
way and according to their doings I judged them […] For I will take you from
among the nations, and gather you out of all the countries, and will bring you
into your own land. And I will sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be
clean; from all your uncleannesses, and from all your
idols, will I cleanse you. A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit
will I put within you; and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh,
and I will give you a heart of flesh.
(From the haphtarah for Parashat Parah, Ezekiel 36)
Haver,
we miss you
In the month of Elul, 5757, my
good friend, Gerald Cromer z"l, who was then
chairman OzveShalom/ Netivot
Shalom, approached me with an offer to edit a weekly parasha
sheet to be distributed among synagogues, a message with a different voice
of religious Zionism, which draws its inspiration from the Torah of Israel.
I first got to know Gerald on the
bus to Bar Ilan, where he served as a professor in
the Criminology Department. Shortly after our first meeting, we became
neighbors and close friends, and hardly a day passed without our conversing. We
used to celebrate Seder eve together and Gerald invited us every year to
consider the "straits" (מיצרים) from which
we wished to exit. We also learned in chevrutah
for many years, and Mashechet Berachot
– which we learned together with two more friends – we completed on the first
anniversary of his passing.
While yet in
spiritual activity, and when he immigrated to
first moment in social projects.
From a very personal and involved
position, he identified what was lacking in Israeli society and labored
tirelessly to bring about change.
When he sensed that the existing
synagogues no longer provided a place that answered his spiritual needs, he
established, together with friends, Kehillat Yedidya, which strives to realize principles of female
participation in the synagogue within the perimeters of halacha, and promotes action for peace and social
justice.
When he sensed that within the
national-religious schools there existed a tendency
towards extremism,
withdrawal
and nationalistic influences, he, together with a group of friends, established
the
gates to the children of the neighborhood to education towards tolerance and
acceptance of the other.
Before the First Lebanon War and
before the Jewish underground, there existed a small movement of religious
intellectuals called "Oz V'Shalom" which
defined itself as an ideological group for religious Zionism. During the period
of the Jewish underground and even more during the First Lebanon War, there was
a feeling prevalent in a larger public – which also included yeshiva students – that there is place for a wider movement
which would express the feeling that something went wrong in the order of value
priorities of part of the religious national community, and in the assembly
which met in Bet Agron, Jerusalem, to establish "Netivot Shalom", two featured speakers were Rav Amital, z"l,
and Rav Lichtenstein, heads of the Har Etzion Yeshiva. Gerald was,
of course, one of those led the organization of this new movement.
Following the murder of Yitzchak Rabin,
Gerald thought that the most suitable place for the reading of the Eicha scroll on Tisha B'Av night would be alongside Yitzchak Rabin's grave. This
is because the greatest threat to our existence as a Jewish (and democratic)
state and the most palpable danger of destruction are latent in baseless
hatred, that is, in the inability to accept the other and in incitement, and
since then, every year, we meet on Mount Herzl for the reading of Eicha and the recitation of lamentations.
On Tisha
B'Av 5765, the day before the disengagement from Gush
Katif, Gerald organized a public symposium in
Jerusalem's Bell Garden, in which representatives of all shades of the
ideological and political rainbow, religious and secular, expressed their
personal feelings about what was about to happen. This twilight assembly had no
chairman. Each speaker introduced the following speaker, and it was impressive
and touching to see that, despite the intense feelings and deep disagreements
which divided the public, it was possible to conduct a respectful discussion
even in disagreement. This was in part because of the sensitivity which
characterized Gerald; despite his deep commitment to the values in which he
believed, he was a true pluralist.
Shortly before his death, when
there was great distress in the south, especially in Sderot,
because of the exposure to missiles from the
found to support this development town.
When, upon returning from a round
of lectures in the
States, he discovered that he was very sick,
Gerald asked me: What should a man do, when he knows that his days are
numbered? At the time I could not believe that in only six weeks he would leave
us, but he knew, and until his last moments he strove to live a life
with meaning.
You showed us the way, dear
Gerald. A source of inspiration and motivator, you are lacking, but we shall
try to continue, each in his place, to act on behalf of those values in which
you believed, and in which we believe, for the sake of a better Israeli
society, more just and peace-loving.
Pinchas
Leiser
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