HOW CAN I BEAR UNAIDED THE TROUBLE OF

YOU,

AND THE BURDEN, AND THE BICKERING!

(Devarim 1:12)

"The Lord God called to the human and said to

him: 'Ayeka' ["Where are you?"]

(Bereishit

3:9) – Eicha [Alas],

Eicha, Eicha and "Ayeka" ("Ayeka" (where are you) and

"eicha" ('alas' and 'how') share the same spelling.)

Said Rabbi Abahu in the name of Rabbi Chanina: It is written

(Hoshea 6), "But they, to a man, have

transgressed the Covenant. This is where they have been false to Me."

– They, like the first man; just as I placed the first man into the

Garden of Eden, and I commanded him, and he transgressed my command, and I

punished him by sending him away and exiling him, and I lamented him, saying

"Ayeka". I placed him the Garden of Eden, as is written

"And

He placed him in the Garden of Eden"; and I commanded him, as is

written, "And God commanded man", and he transgressed

the command, as is written, "From the tree about which I command you

not to eat, have you eaten?", and I punished him by

sending him off, as is written, "And the Lord, God, sent them away from

the Garden of Eden", and exiling him, as

is written, "and He drove man away", and I

lamented him saying "Ayeka", as is written,

"And

the Lord God called to the man and said to him: "Ayeka" ["Where are you"?].

The word is spelled like "eicha", so did I bring his descendents into Eretz Yisrael, and

I commanded them, and they transgressed my command; I punished them by driving

them away and exiling them, and I lamented them – "Eicha."

(Bereishit Rabba Parasha

19)

 "Eicha

yasheva" – three prophecied with the term "Eicha", Moshe, Isaiah, and

Yirmiyahu. Moshe said: "How can I bear unaided etc."

Isaiah said: "Alas, she has become a harlot",

Yimiyahu said: "Alas! Lonely sits the city".

Said Rabbi Levi: This can be compared to a wealthy woman who

had three close companions; one knew her in her tranquility, the second in her

wantonness, and third in her shame. So Moshe saw Israel in their time of honor

and tranquility, and said, "How can I bear unaided the trouble of you".

Isaiah saw them in their time of wantonness, and said, "Alas,

she has become a harlot". Yirmiyahu saw them in

their time of disgrace, and said, "Alas, lonely sits the city."

(Eicha Rabba, Parasha 1)

We find that "Eicha"

extends from the promise of settlement in the Land, through the actual

dwelling in the Land, up to and including the destruction and subsequent exile

from the Land. The deep significance of this is the teaching that the end of a

matter is already embedded in its beginning, and the actions of the individual

and the group, and the consequences of their actions, all merge into one, or,

to phrase it in religious terms, the sin and its punishment are one, the sin

itself is also the punishment.

 (Y. Leibowitz, Seven Years Of

Discussion Of The Weekly Portion, p. 762)

ON BASELESS HATRED AND GRATUITOUS LOVE

Pinchas Leiser

The

causes of the destruction of the Second Temple cited by the Talmud (Yoma 9b)

are fairly common knowledge:

[During

the existence of] The Second Temple, Jews were engaged in Torah study, in mitzvot,

and in the doing of good deeds; why, then, was it destroyed? Because there

existed groundless hatred.

The

Talmud, in Bava Metsia 30b, cites a different reason for the destruction of the

temple: Said Rabbi Yochanan: Yerushalayim was destroyed only because they

judged according to Torah law… rather say: Because they ruled strictly

according to [the letter of] the Torah law, they did not rule beyond the letter

of the law. The Tosafists (Bava Metsia 30b) point

out the apparent contradiction between the two above sources: "[Here the

reason given is]… they judged according etc". Whereas in Yoma 9b it says

"because of groundless hatred!" The resolution offered by the

Tosafists: "It might be said: Both this one and that one caused the

destruction of the Temple."

An

in-depth examination of the two causes suggested by the Talmud, establishing

the connection between the two, may help us to comprehend the concept of

"groundless hatred" – 'sin'at chinam'

– which has become a kind of meaningless cliche.

Individuals

who hate each other, groups which hate each other, or nations which hate each

other, will generally come up with what they consider to be justified reasons

for their hating the other. Sometimes the reason is personal, sometimes "ideological",

political or religious. They will never define their hatred as "groundless

hatred"; if the other is a "heretic" or a "traitor",

or simply a rasha", there is complete

justification for hating him!

This

phenomenon is adroitly described by S. Y. Agnon, in his delightful satiricial

tale "Everlasting Peace" (from "Sefer Hamedina, in the volume

"Samuch Vnir'eh, p. 261):

The

state had to conduct consultations in order to forestall the misfortune. But

the citizens of the country were divided into two parties… those who covered

their heads, and those who bared their heads, and whatever one party desired,

the other blocked, and even each party was divided among itself, each sector

hating each other, perhaps even more that the common enemy hates the covered

heads and the uncovered heads as one. How did one country come to be divided

into two nations which harass each other? The explanation can be determined

from past aspects of the nation's history, aspects which continue to influence,

even though world realities changed and the conduct of the nation changed, and

its sons abandoned all that was dear to their parents. That country had a

tradition that its founding fathers were Jews, and the custom of the Jews was

to cover their heads, and therefore some of them covered their heads. And the

others, why did they bare their heads? It is because they saw themselves as

Jews prior to receiving the Torah, who had not yet been commanded to cover

their heads, so therefore they bared their heads. And because these covered

their heads and those did not cover their heads, they hated each other. And why

did the covered-heads hate one another? After all, both these covered their

heads and those covered their heads, but these wore yarmulkehs (kippot)

and these wore turbans… these were bigger than envy and these were smaller

than lice… and there was really no need for a head at all, as long as the

covering was conspicuous. Why did the bare-headed hate each other – after all

these wore no covering and those wore no covering? The answer is that these

grew forelocks and those cut their hair short, these were partially bald and

those were completely bald. There was really no need for a head at all, as long

as it was bare… They were similar in one thing only: each group contended

that all the misfortunes which come upon the country came only becomes of its

opponent… And were it not that the author of the Book of the State is wary

about superflous entries, he would say that both these and those are words of

truth.

This

satire – penned by Agnon many years ago but could well have been written today

– describes what seems to be a fairly widespread human feature. Sartre, the

French philosopher, defined it pithily: "Hell is – the others."

In the literature of Chazal, the controversy

between Hillel and Shammai is characterized as 'a controversy for the sake of

Heaven', which is destined to endure. Two Talmudic sources depict controversy

between the two schools          conducted

in a spirit of mutual respect:

Said

Rabbi Abba in the the name of Shmuel: Three years did the House of Shammai

disagree with the House of Hillel. These say "the law is as we rule"

and those say "the law is as we rule." A divine voice declared:

"Both these and these are the words of the living God – and the law is in accordance

with the House of Hillel." Now, if the words of both houses are the words

of the living God, why did the House of Hillel merit having it's rulings

accepted? Because they were easy-going, and not arrogant, and they taught their

words along with those of the House of Shammai. And not only that – they also

preceded their own words with those of the House of Shammai. (Bavli, Eruvin 13b)

Even

though the House of Shammai and the House of Hillel were divided on such issues

as second wives and sisters, on an old writ of divorce, on questionable

adultrous relationships, on one who divorces his wife and then spends the night

in the same inn, on actual money and monetary equivalents, on the peruta

coin and its equivalent [All issues which involve possible adultry and

subsequent bastardry. – Translator], the House of Shammai did not refrain

both, thus fulfilling (Zecharia 8) "Love truth and peace". (Yevamot 14b)

In contrast to the above, the Yerushalmi

Talmud offers a description of violent conflict between the two schools:

These

are laws which were discussed in the upper storey of Hannanya ben Hizkiya ben

Garon when they came to visit him, and a count was taken, and the House of

Shammai had a majority over the House of Hillel, and eighteen decrees were

passed that day. (Mishnah,

Shabbat 1:4)

That

day was as difficult for Israel as the day they made the calf – Rabbi Eliezer said: On that day, they

overfilled the measure [of laws]. Rabbi Yehoshua said: On that day they made

the measure of laws just even. Said to him Rabbi Leiser: If it was lacking, and

they filled it up – that is right and proper. To a barrel full of nuts, the

more you put in sesame seeds, it becomes stronger.

Said

to him Rabbi Yehoshua: If it was full, and they took out some – that is right

and proper! To a barrel that was full of oil, the more you add water, it thins

out the oil.

Rabbi

Yehoshua Onia taught: The disciples of Bet Shammai stood above them, and

they killed disciples of Bet Hillel.

It

was taught: Six of them went up, and the rest stood against them with swords

and daggers. (Yerushalmi,

Shabbat, Chap. 1, Halacha 4)

Those

same Batei Midrash, those same schools who could treat each other with

such respect, who would even intermarry despite disagreement on the most basic

principles, could also let the controversy decline onto violent, power-driven

tracks.

What,

disciples of the House of Shammai in the Yerushalmi?

It seems to me that the key may be found

in understanding the concept "controversy for the sake of Heaven is

destined to endure" – a controversy in which each side accepts the

proposition that the intention of his adversary, is also "for the sake of

Heaven", and that it has no monopoly of the divine truth. Such a

controversy can continue to endure in mutual respect.

In

this kind of controversy, each side holds part of the truth, and does not claim

to represent the entire truth. (The root of 'machloket' – controversy

– is "chelek", which means 'a part.') In such a case, the arguments can

exist, and so can the opponents – one alongside the other. When a decision is

required, it is reached according to accepted criteria and in mutual respect;

the practical resolution reached does not affect the overall principle of

"Both these and these are the words of the living God."

On

the other hand, a situation in which each side (or one of the sides) is

determined to win at any price, and is convinced that its truth and the divine

truth are one and the same, such a situation does not permit co-existence

between the two rivals. In such cases, we see cases of social ostracism,

isolation, and terms of abuse such as "traitor" and

"heretic", and the controversy becomes personal hatred which is

liable to deteriorate into violent force.

Sometimes,

the tendency to delegitimatize and ostracize derives from a feeling of being

threatened. When a person or a group feel threatened by another person, another

group, or a different viewpoint, the delegitimization may serve as a substitue

for coping directly with the person, the group, or the viewpoint; in such

cases, we are witnesses to "hatred distorts the measure".

I

don't think there is a need to prove that this sad phenomenon, described in

Chazalic literature and Agnon's satire, exists today. It is essential to point

out the destructive dangers hidden in this approach.

If

we return to the two Talmudic statements quoted above, we can, in line with

Tosafot's commentary, describe the two phenomena – groundless hatred and ruling

in strict accordance with the letter of law, without any spirit of generosity –

as flowing from a single source; a society based only on "din Torah"

– the law of Torah – is a society without human compassion, a

society sans love. When there is no relating to – and respect for – the

human dimension in all its complexity, hatred for all that is different must

inevitably develop. "Lifnim meshurat ha-din" – ruling

generously beyond the letter of the law is not a superhuman category. No

society can continue to exist for a long time if there is no respect for a man

because he is a man.

How

pleasant and how important the words of Rav Kook (Orot HaKodesh 3, 324):

And if we were destroyed, and the world

destroyed along with us, by baseless hatred, we shall return to be rebuilt, and

the world rebuilt along with us, by gratuitious love.

The

term "Ahavat chinam" (gratuitious love) is

not to found in Chazal sources, but perhaps the term "unconditional

love" which – like "controversy for the sake of Heaven" is

destined to endure – faithfully relects that which is desired in our midst,

love of man as man, despite his dissimilarity, despite our disagreement with

his positions. May it be His will that we live to experience the realization

of:

The fast of the fourth month and the fast of the fifth

Yehudah; but you must love honesty and peace.

Pinchas

Leiser, editor of "Shabbat Shalom", is a psychologist.

"HEAR OUT YOUR FELLOW MEN" – ON DECENCY IN JUDGEMENT

Furthermore, He desires that

the judge not smile and lift his eyes to one party, while lowering his eyes

from the other, but that the way of listening to each be equal, as the

verse states, "Hear out", meaning that the way of

listening be like that between brothers, if you lift your eyes, lift them to

both, and if you lower them, lower them to both, or perhaps God is commanding

that he not raise his eyes altogether, for it is possible that he mislead one

of them with his look, giving the impression that he prefers the other party

over him, thus confounding his arguments. And I heard from a great and

righteous sage, highly respected in Israel and loved by me as my own breath,

Rabbi Moshe Birdugo, of blessed memory, that he would take strict care during

judgement that his eyes be lowered, never raising them, for he felt that were

he to look to the side, inevitably one party would become confused, and the

basis for this is "Hear out your fellow men" – that

there be only "hearing", and that the arguments of the parties

come before him without any difference in his relation to them, and thus "You

shall decide justly".

 (Ohr HaHayyim, Devarim 1:16)

TRANSCRIPTION

OF THE TORAH INTO 70 LANGUAGES IS AN EXPRESSION OF ITS UNIVERSAL MESSAGE

"On the other side

to say…"

(Devarim

1:5)

"To expound this Teaching" – he expounded it to them in 70

languages.

(Rashi, Devarim 1:5)

"And you are to

write on the stones all the words of this Instruction, explained well."

"Explained well" – In 70 languages.

(Rashi,

Devarim 27:8)

In Tractate Sotah (32a), Chazal explained "Explained

well" according to that written above, "Moshe

undertook to expound this Teaching"; "Explained well",

then, indicates that the words must be explained and brought close to

understanding. And from here we also derive that this copy of the Torah also

included translation for the sake of comprehension by the nations of the world,

for Israel is far from that particularism atrributed to it by non-Jews. From

the very beginning, Israel saw as its mission to bring spiritual and moral

salvation to to all humanity, and with the entry of the Torah into Eretz

Yisrael, the future salvation of all the nations began. Yet more, on page 35b,

we read that this translation included the reason for the expulsion of the

Canaanite nations: "So that they do not teach you to do all, etc."

– this rationale was also brought to the attention of the nations and

repeated and explained in this copy of the Torah, so that all nations of Canaan

will know and understand: They stand to be expelled only if they wish to

continue holding on to their beliefs and their idolatrous ways of life, but if

they return to acceptance of the general commandments given all humanity, there

will be nothing to prevent them from dwelling in the land.

 (Rabbi Shimshon Rafael Hirsch, Devarim

27:8)

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